But in the end, I don't want that poison in my veins or in my life.
Try as hard as you can, make a conscious effort, to turn it over and bless the situation.
Description: Since Freshmen year of High School, I've been floating this list of quotes from computer to computer, adding to it as the inspiration comes by, leading to a document that continually humors and ins...
Since Freshmen year of High School, I've been floating this list of quotes from computer to computer, adding to it as the inspiration comes by, leading to a document that continually humors and inspires me.
I only have two sisters and one of them is a hateful, nasty woman who has decided to attempt to inflict as much adversity into my life as possible, probably because she's always had more than I did and can't for the life of her figure out how I've been able to survive through numerous hardships in my life with relative peace and faith.
She lies about me and tries to turn people against me.
If you have your kids and your husband's support, lean on them, love them, and move forward. Everything I did, I did after I consulted with her.
I can be quiet and say not a word and I still get poison from her. There is no use for me to continue a relationship with her. Thank god you put a stop to this behavour and know your kids and there kids etc can have the life they deserve thanks to you!!! It also appears to be jealousy, and she has made my life miserable because of it. She's the most miserable, nasty, bitter person I know. She's been the cause of a couple of break-ups but its my fault, I allowed it. I found a wonderful man and realized that God answers prayer. So she calls me on my cell phone to avoid talking to him if he answers the house phone.Now I'm not saying that I'm above anger or truly disliking her, I'm not ... Many times people are so angry because they either hate themselves or cannot deal with deep, emotional issues.My sister and I haven't spoken to each other in a few years, and truthfully, its more peaceful.My mother is nasty, bitter, hateful, argumentive, unsupportive and the meanest person I know. OK she made a mistake....why did she have me and my sister? I've gotten to the point where I do not want her poison in my life. Even harder to understand how she can be this way once you bring your own lil angels in the world.She's always been this way, but it's getting worse as she gets older (now 68). She lies and when you call her on it, she denies it. My brother hasn't had anything to do with her in the last several years. Throughout my life, I always knew "To be different, and not like her". I love my children more than anything on this earth and would never think of treating them the way she's treated us. Im betting you feel a lil better after getting it of your chest.Treat yourselves to a nice dinner, with NO conversation about the evil Mom. I feel I should be a better wife and stick up for my husband, even if she's my mother.Then concentrate on one day at a time, being just you, not the unwanted daughter. I want to move away but I can't until my husband retires.The key is no matter how vicious they are to you, do not direct hate towards them.Now that doesn't mean that they have the right to infringe on your life or continue to spew negativity, it just means that a person should just step back, be able to look at the truth for what it is, and take care of themselves.You cannot talk to her nicely or try to explain your point without her snapping at the person and starting an argument. No one wants to be around her because she is so nasty. I have the same, wonderful husband for 20 years and are happy. Now Im no proffessional but you do need to cut all ties with this lady. Anyone care to get back to me...support.//// ***@****.If you say to her "why are you arguing" she says, You are, not me. You are dammed if you talk to her, and dammed if you don't talk to her. She always has to put people down, and it seems she is extremely jealous of me. We have a beautiful home, nice, new cars, and 2 beautiful, good kids. She gave birth to you but she has not earned mother title at all. ) This is eating you up and that sort of stress can cause cancer's and heart disease. (sigh) It looks like everyone's first comment is "Wow". I was amazed to read through these stories and find that I'm not the only one.