Dutch women, are often very blunt in their intentions and don’t waste time with such things as flirting.If a woman flirts with a Dutch man the likely response will be “so are we going to your place or mine?Your date will immediately assess you as being high maintenance, while he drinks his glass of tap water. The Dutch male is used to the fashion sense of the “doe maar gewoon” Dutch female.In other words, denim, shapeless boots, a top that clashes so badly with the rest of the outfit that you’d think Stevie Wonder was their personal stylist, and hair that would make a perfect nest for any passing bird.The Dutch female is often not particularly interested or fazed by the fact that their target could be married, in a relationship or even as the Shallow Man has witnessed with his own eyes, have their girlfriend present.The Dutch ladies are relentless once they have set their sights on a target.
The Shallow Man is risking a storm of abuse by bringing this up again, but, I’ve been told repeatedly by expat women, even as recently as yesterday (thank you Vittoria) that Dutch men are tighter than a virgin female flea.
Before telling you about the mistakes expats often make when dating a Dutch man, here’s a story about an incident in Amsterdam.
A female friend and sometimes running partner of the Shallow Man was having a massage in a place in the Rivierenbuurt.
Several disappointed, international antelope, have asked me where they went wrong in their pursuit of the Dutch Lion.
The Shallow Man, is, as always, sensitive to the needs of his expat flock.