There’s a saying that goes, “Young men speak of the things they are doing, old men speak of things they did, and fools speak of the things they’re about to do.” Don’t be impressed by the unimpressive.
The Thrill of the Hunt Relationships will always frustrate you until you understand this very important concept: Men need to be challenged.
Too many women sell themselves short by settling for a man with an attractive exterior.
A man who is overly concerned with himself and his material things has no room to value you. Just because a man is good-looking, wears a shiny new suit, sports some Now and Later gators, drives a shiny new car, and profiles a new Rolex on his wrist does not mean he is a good man.
You want him to crave those qualities you possess by not receiving them all of the time.Men are aggressive by nature, and once we devour our prey, we’re off on the next hunt.This means that once a man feels he has you effectively under control, he will move on to the next prey that presents a greater challenge. Men look forward to sharing the excitement of your world, but that’s impossible if you’ve made the man you’re dating your world. ” I cringe every time I hear those types of questions.If your man is living in his mother’s house for more than a couple of months — I give a small grace period — RED FLAG.2.If he drives an expensive car, but rents an apartment — RED FLAG.3. If your man wears more than one ring per hand, more than one bracelet per wrist, and more than one necklace per neck — RED FLAG.5.But if the brother is broke, you have to question his motivations (and his sanity). This brings me to my next point: Don’t ignore the red flags.He must use whatever tactics are at his disposal to get the go-ahead for intimacy from a woman. Some women are notorious for turning a blind eye to the warning signs, even if they’re staring them right in the face.Granted, I’d have to give the brother an “A” for style and originality, but when I said to her, “Wow, he must be paid! He’s living with his mother right now, but he just really likes me.” All I could think was, 'This fool must have fallen and bumped her head.I understand it may have been a flattering gesture, but don’t reward a man with attention and praise for foolishness.' Now, if he has no problem affording lavish gifts, that’s another story.When Michael Lockwood was a single divorced dad, he'd often write down dating advice that he planned to give to his daughters when they grew up.Years later, he's turned those thoughts and advice into a book "Women Have All the Power, Too Bad They Don't Know It." Don’t be impressed by the unimpressive.