Let’s just enjoy each other’s company and see where this goes… ” Just the reassurance that comes from him knowing that you’re willing to take things one day at a time might be enough to help him settle down, process his fears and concerns, and come to the realization that you’re a total keeper!
Good luck, Sandra, and please let me know how it works out!
BUT you EVENTUALLY might need to have a conversation with him.
The fact that he expressed his emotions (“I’m terrified,”) may have been his way of opening up to you.
I care about you a lot, and I know things might seem intense since we’ve gotten very close, very quickly, but please don’t let that scare you.
She’s been seeing this new guy – let’s call him Sam – and for weeks things seemed like they were going great… He cancelled their dinner plans one night because he was “tired.” “So what’s his DEAL? “I thought we were on our way to becoming serious and now it seems like it’s the beginning of the end!
They were spending lots of time together, Sam was calling regularly, the chemistry was incredible, and she really thought that things were going SOMEWHERE… How can I MAKE him realize that I’m the one he was meant to be with?!? One where she kind of squinches up her eyes and purses her lips as if to say, “Okay, Paige… Dish it.” I laugh again and say, “First of all, Molly, you and I both know that you can’t MAKE him realize that you’re ‘the one.’ He should KNOW it because he’s had the privilege to spend time with the amazing, gorgeous, brilliant, hilarious person you are. As much as most of them really DO want a relationship with a special woman, when the opportunity actually arises to CREATE that relationship, THEY FREAK OUT.” Molly takes a gulp of her margarita and nods her head. It’s likely that Sam is apprehensive about the IDEA of commitment, not necessarily a commitment WITH Molly.
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