But he can tell his bi-ness makes me nervous and uncomfortable.
I think that because he appears more feminine than most men and is more often hit on by men than women, I worry that he would feel more comfortable or "normal" with a man.
(I've been with men and women in the past; he's never been with a man.) I know it is unfair of me to feel this way and he's never given me any real reason to fear this.
We have a very engaged, kinky, and rewarding sex life! This situation is complicated by the near certainty that my boyfriend has some sort of hormonal disorder.
This should help him understand if he 'just needs to wait' or if he has a diagnosis that could be treated.
There is a real possibility that he has KS, which is usually treated with testosterone to improve muscle mass, bone density and sexual function." Follow RJ Aguiar on Twitter @rj4gui4r.
I try to be as supportive as possible and tell him how attracted to him I am and how he'll get through whatever this is.
I feel horrible about myself for these anxieties considering that I'm bi too, and should know better.
Anonymous Nervous Girlfriend Seeks Tranquility "Many people who encounter us Bi folk in the wild just project their insecurities onto us with impunity and then blame us for it," said RJ Aguiar, a bisexual activist and content creator whose work has been featured on Buzzfeed, Huff Po, Queerty and other sites.
Stop worrying about the next six or seven decades of your life—stop worrying about forever—and enjoy this time and this boy and this relationship for however long it lasts.
Finally, ANGST, on the off chance your boyfriend hasn't spoken to a doctor about his symptoms—because he's an uninsured/underinsured/unlucky American or because he's been too embarrassed to bring up the size of his balls and quality of ejaculations with his parents and/or doctor—I shared your letter with Dr.