This is because ISTJs believe that the root cause of the disagreement is due to the other person not having the facts, prompting them to explain the facts.Whether or not the ISTJ is correct, this tendency sometimes prevents the other person from explaining their opinion. Ok Cupid is free to join, free to search, and free to message. As an INFP, I have learned to be extremely careful who I date.Choose a mate who you can just sit and be quiet with, who truly, truly understands who you are and does not view your character as a loner, or as antisocial.I really am not antisocial and love hanging out with those I love.In addition, they tend to only pursue relationships when it is on their internal list of things to do.When this occurs, they may consciously make an effort to meet potential mates.
They may not readily express their feelings, even though they may have tremendous love for their mates.During a Relationship Because they value security and the fulfillment of their duties, they will make certain that they fulfill their role as partner.Once ISTJs decide to commit to a relationship, they will stick with it until the end.Be true to yourself, enjoy who you are, and you will eventually attract the right person.Book and volumes should be written about how INFPs come to share their lives with lovers..it's an interesting, dynamic tale! I am also and INFP (shocking) and i also tend to get physical too soon, and guys think i am impulsive, but i do it because i have so many feelings towards them bottled up that i can´t express it any other way.In these regards, ISTJs can inadvertently turn the argument into a win-lose situation, in which the other person agrees just to end the argument.They can address their potential weaknesses by learning to see things from their partner's viewpoint and by appreciating the limitations of defining correctness based solely on facts.Because they are not naturally in tune with other's feelings, they may sometimes not realize how their words or actions affect their partners.Likewise, they may inappropriately try to comfort their partners using logic instead of love or support.I even brave new groups and do numerous things with others I dont know just by myself and find that after a while I hate being alone.However, I dated a very outgoing young guy who often accused me of not having enough friends for a 25 year old, and this really hurt me. this is who I am, and I am ok to watch a DVD by myself, or prefer to hang out with very close family members or friends instead of goofing off somewhere.. We could never connect on that deeper spiritual level because of this.