I'm not suggesting daters ignore what turns them on, but rather that they remain open to new possibilities.
It's wrong to reject an otherwise perfect man or woman because they're not quite tall enough or slender enough.
The sender is trolling, cutting and pasting the same lame message onto numerous daters' emails.
It's not flattering, and worse, it doesn't even mean they really want to meet you.
It's important not to let it affect your self-esteem.
But if you really have no idea how old or young you should be dating, this silly formula can actually be eye opening. More Than A Face I don't believe attraction is limited to the physical.Sure, someone's photo is the first item daters notice, but unless you still believe finding a life partner is just luck, you'll read someone's profile before contacting them. An initial email from someone that lacks a shred of information about you that demonstrates they've read your profile should be automatically deleted.People who receive emails from trollers are often rejected when they reply.It's a wrongheaded way to source dates, and makes the email sender look desperate and foolish to everyone but the equally desperate and foolish.Assuming someone has actually read your profile, being rejected is likely related to how they feel about you as a viable partner.But whether or not the reasons for being rejected are valid, there's a sense that you're disposable.It Works Very few boomer daters respond to emails from men or women they're not interested in.Everyone would take the time to write thanks, but no thanks in a perfect world, but time is a consideration.Online dating has the unfortunate trappings of impersonal nonchalance that doesn't require politeness. Online dating works for too many boomers not to consider it viable.After dozens of coffee dates with women I met online, I finally met my partner. Earlier on Huff/Post50: Romance, as we age, blossoms from ever deeper wells of the soul.