Us being their girlfriends has nothing to do with making sure their shirts are ironed and their laundry gets done.To be honest, I iron things with my hair straightener and only do laundry when I run out of underwear.It doesn't mean we are mad at them — or mad about anything, for that matter. Just because I don't like being in a club surrounded by young adults I view as children doesn't mean I can't have fun. It's OK for younger guys to not fully know what they want to do with their lives, but us nudging them to start thinking about it is like asking them to take a bullet for us.Personal space is something I value, and it's something I need. We women who are dating younger men just grew out of the frat party mentality years ago, opting for better alcohol and a more mature crowd. It's an immediate trigger when you're dating a younger guy.
I've grown out of my college habits, as have most women my age.
We knew what we were getting into when we fell for younger guys, and the pros do, in fact, outweigh the cons.
In my online dating profile preferences, I’d always make the age range between “my age 1” and 45, as if going out with someone my age or one year younger were some kind of abhorrent crime.
It's offensive for them to even question our inability to tell a creep at the bar to get lost.
It makes me feel as if my loyalty is being questioned, and I can't help but think this wouldn't be an issue if I was dating someone my age or older.