"Until I found Cancer Dating Service, I was unusually shy about dating.
Ya, cancer can have that effect :) But a few days in, I received a message from a man who was caring, nice, & so funny.
He asked me what it was and in my fearless NYer way I told him I got that scar from not minding my own business.
Just so you can understand how bad my battle with cancer was, I was told that they did not know how effective chemo would be and that I had to get my affairs in order as soon as possible.Not only was I a cancer survivor who still gets treated by different specialists, for the long-term effects of late stage cancer, but I had been out of the dating scene for 12 years!Countless of dates later, yes I do not give up easy, I started to lose my faith in being able to find romance.I can't believe I'm saying this, but 6 months later, I am engaged! It is only when something like cancer strikes that people realize the true value of so many things they take for granted. And yet when someone survives the disease, it is all the more reason to live and love fully.Now before we go into any of the reasons why I personally think cancer survivors should absolutely date and keep themselves open to romance, let us first clarify what a cancer survivor is.When I was diagnosed with stage IV colon cancer almost 15 years ago, this April to be exact, I was told that you are not considered a survivor until you are 5 years’ cancer free.I am very happy to say that me being a cancer survivor was not what broke us apart, but my own desire to not marry again.So yes, romance is in the air for cancer survivors too.The colon cancer in my body was going in and out of my large and small intestines like a roller coaster, that ate up my appendix, was coming through my abdominal wall, later decided to go up to my left lung and as a bonus, my life saving chemotherapy port decided to develop a huge clot in the part went into my heart.All those years of on and off chemo cocktails, countless procedures and surgeries, 10 to be exact, have left my body majorly battled scarred and crooked, but it was okay because I was married and would never have to worry about dating again, or so I thought.