I listen to their dating stories about seemingly all-around decent men who just don't measure up to who and what they are searching for.I see these women fighting against their very nature, the core of who they are.You'll waste years of your life trying to change something that's not supposed to be.And you have to understand what and who you are and then go find your match.I get that women's ascendancy in the working world has perhaps made the fairer sex more aggressive and "masculine," but I also see plenty of women in high-level positions who demonstrate more "feminine" qualities in the workplace.So could it be that many of these strong-minded women just happen to naturally be more dominant types?It's not a matter of who is perfect; it's a matter of in what environment does he thrive and what environment do I do well.
When asked out on a date, an Alpha Female might reply that she will be free for a coffee in 3 weeks!
A lot of dating coaches will tell strong, successful women to tone down their dominant nature if they want to date and have a relationship with an Alpha male, and that can be an effective strategy, especially in the early stages of dating when you don't want to come off as an aggressive, control-freak.
But for a lot of Alpha woman trying to find partners, the Alpha male may not be the best fit.
See yourself going through the course of your everyday life with a Beta Male by your side.
Imagine the thoughts that will run through your mind, the feelings you will experience and the things you will do each day.